By Riley Boock
The following quote is a review written by Samuel Pepys:
“…The King’s Theatre, where we saw “Midsummer Night’s Dream,” which I had never seen before, nor shall ever again, for it is the most insipid ridiculous play that ever I saw in my life.”
At one time or another, we’ve all gotten feedback that stung. Not even Shakespeare, the father of modern English literature, is exempt from criticism. Even with this in mind, it can be incredibly difficult to cope with rejection – but not impossible.
Here are some tips you can follow to make the best of a bad review:
Wallow (Within Reason)
I won’t sugarcoat it – rejection hurts. Your work, written or otherwise, is the result of a vulnerable and dedicated process; in a way, it becomes part of you. If you feel so inclined, treat yourself to some Ben & Jerry’s, rent a tearjerker, and make it an early night. Alternatively, you could get some fresh air, go for a walk, or journal your thoughts and feelings. It doesn’t matter which method of self-care you choose as long as it fills your cup!
Taking some time to recuperate after receiving disappointing feedback can make a huge difference in both your attitude and motivation. As humans, we have a tendency to take criticism very personally; unfortunately, as writers and creators, that’s a huge part of the process. Once you’ve channeled your initial feelings through an appropriate outlet, you can revisit your work with a fresh lens.
Consider the Critiques
As you review your feedback, try to find the gems in the pile of rocks. Remember that most criticisms are well-meaning, even if they come across as cruel. However, some negative critiques are going to be unhelpful, plain and simple. Disregard those and keep looking for useful notes. For example:
- This is the worst story I ever heard. – Anonymous User. (Unhelpful.)
- This story has potential but isn’t ready for publication yet. The plot, though humorous, is underdeveloped and stale. – Editor McCritic. (Harsh, but can be helpful with some positive reframing.)
The key is to question if each review taught you something or introduced a new, informed perspective. The first example gives an opinion with no supplemental advice, but the second one points out a specific issue that can be addressed. This fundamental difference can completely change the way you view criticism.
Keep it Moving
It’s important to take corrections into consideration, but at the end of the day, don’t let it consume you. Different critics will have different insights; try to get a variety of sources to provide feedback, rather than lingering on the thoughts of just one.
Whatever you do, don’t let a negative review extinguish your spark. There is always something to improve upon, so let those critiques be nothing but an impetus. Keep working, growing, and prospering!